To JR

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Lipat,

Let me begin by expressing my sadness for your loss. I want you to know that you and your family have been in my thoughts and prayers since I learned of the passing of JR.

I feel honored that you have asked me to be a part of such an important memory. It has taken me a little time to begin to think about what I wanted to say.

As I reflect back on the year JR was in kindergarten I think aobut his friendship with Andrew Snelgrove. They really were kindergarten friends, very different but very close. JR was a very sweet five year old wanting to be friends with everybody. He had the biggest smile and seemed to wear it every day.

He was dedicated to his learning and wanted to be a successful learner. He tried to do his best and showed in his work. As you had stated he wanted a talent well I think he had one and did not realize it, we did... He had the special talent to make people smile and feel good. When I look at the picture on your letter that is how I remember JR. I loved to watch him as he looked at you with that bright smile and beautiful eyes.

Again let me say thank you for including me in your lives and know that I will keep you in my prayers. The loss of a loved one is very difficult but I want you to know that God is with you an one day we will be together in his presence.

Joyous kindergartener

Often caught looking over his glasses at you

Son

Helping hand to everyone in kindergarten

Under God's presence

Always a Friend

God Bless.

Mrs. Candy Walsh

JR

Joshua Ruel was my sweet, cute, little nephew.

His sweetness will remain in my heart.

JR your cute little face is like a mountain crystal a radiant gem on my necklace

Your soft and gentle voice always asking for explanantions will remain music to my ears.

Your dark almond shaped eyes will remind me of the pureness of your soul.

Yes JR the times we spent together will always be cherished in my heart.

The memories you hold my hand while we walked on the beach together will be a sweet memories to remember

The ways you made me laugh by telling funny stories or just by putting expressions on your cute little face.

The question you keep asking "Are we there yet?" while we were driving on a long highway will be like little bells ringing into my ears.

Oh JR all the things we have had will be remember.

All of these JR and the very whole of you, I will miss

The total you my beloved nephew I will love and keep your place in my heart

It is not goodbye, but it is goodnight my sweet loved loved JR...

By: Tante Rexcy

To JR Lipat

JR, I only got to spend 3 years with you, but I just wanted to say Thank You! You showed me something that I have negleted all my life.
Matthew 18 verse 3 say's it best. "I tell you the truth, unless you change and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of Heaven"
JR you didn't know, but the way you showed love, compassion, and caring was a blessing for me, and everyone you came in contact with. I remember you always huged and kissed me everytime i came to visit, you don't know how much that meant to me.
You were only nine years old, but you had a heart that was bigger than most adults. Now because of your big heart. I am understanding more, and more what God's heart is like.
There's an old saying God doesn't make mistake's and that there's a reason for everything, well it's true. Meeting you changed me forever! I am a stranger Christian, my faith in God has reached new heights, I'm telling strangers about God, I am going on missionary trips, and I owe it to you, JR Lipat.

JR, I love you, I miss you, Thank you again!
I will see you in Heaven my friends! Love Josh

To my friend J.R.

I recall the first time I saw you at church, with a big smile on your faces and such a warmth inside of you tha only Jesus could give. I will never forget that you always had a big hug for Ms. Jean, because you knew I liked hugs.
also you were so respectful to people of all ages, and that really impressed me. I will never forget our valentine banquet when I had the honor of sitting at the table with you and your lovely family, and you me quickly, "Ms. Jean I will be your date." You were alwaysthinking of others.
I am so sorry you were sick and this brought an early death to you, but we will put this in the hands of God and trust him. I miss you my little one.

Love,
Jean Hodges

JR

This is how I met JR. It was in Church one Sabbath Day, He came to shake my hand and to say, "Happy Sabbath" I looked at him dressed in a neat suite, and his smile on his face. I said, "What's your name" and he answered, "JR". I was taken away a little s mine intials are 'JR'. I became to know him better, as he came to my house several times with his dad who would do some repair jobs for me. When he invited me for his Birthday Party. I told him, "I will take you to shop for a present" Unfortunately he had to wait for sometime, but he never ever complained or asked me "when do I get my present". Finally I was able to take him and he knew exactly what he wanted, we had to shop around. He was very happy and on the way home, he kept on talking aobut his present. He also told me sometime later, he liked O'Charley's Restaurant ( I wasn not familiar with this restaurant) and maybe he said, I could take him there someday. I d and let me tell you JR loved the rolls more than anything else. Because of his sweet attitufe, his love for Jesus and his family, and wanting to share his love for Jesus and because we have the same intials, JR got a place in my heart. He will always be remembered and I too hope to see him again and spend eternity with him.

So long my buddy I love you JR,
Joke Rogue

A Tribute to JR

We remember when we were invited to the Lipat's home for dinner after church on Sabbath, and there to greet us upon arrival was J.R.
Something caught my eye immediately, that still sticks to my mind, and that was how friendly and hospitable this young man was. Even though just as a youth, J.R. know how to make you feel welcome, and was not one who was short on conversation. I also noticed while his sister's were in another part of the house, J.R. never strayed far from us.

My wife recalls,that same day, that J.R. asked her to help him blow up some balloons, and they had a good time, on the floor playing catch.
She aslo recals how moved she was when she was asked by J.R. if he could call her Aunt Dot.
She says, J.R. made her feel young again.

I believe God allowed us to have J.R. for reason, to show us what true love is like. Children are not like adults, in that they have an innocence i them that doesn't allow them to take on our predudices, the reason for his early departure, but we have this hope the on Ressurrection Day, we will see him again. I comment Ruel and Luz, also the girls for raising up J.R. in the way I believe was very pleasing to God. The Bible says be their fruit, you shall know them. Your fruit, J.R. was truly God sent. God bless the Lipat Family, and we thank you all for allowing us to know such a wonderful young man
Charles and Dorothy Williams

Love Letter to JR

Dear JR.
What a remarkable person you were. In Children's Church, I grew to know and learned to love your sweet spirit. You were well behaved, gentle, loving and kind.
Never realizing the burden you were carrying, I assumed you were shy and quiet. I could see you had a wisdom beyond your young years. There were times, when I felt you look beyone me and would see directly into my heart. Quietly watching and listening to every word spoken.
What a joy you were to be around. You knew and love Jesus, it showed in your words, actions and kindness to others. I thank God for allowing you to come into my life, you were just a treasure.
Your suffering taught you compassion, understanding, and faith. How much Jesus must have loved you to give you such an important short life here. You touched the lives of everyone who knew you, including mine. Thank you.
I will look for you in Heaven, so we can sing 'Climb Sunshine Mountain' one more time.

Your teacher and friend,

Ms. Karen x0x0x00
Love you

Dear JR

Dear JR I wanted to tell you how much you mean to me, how much I have cried and laughed during you 9 1/2 years of life. You are so many things.

We moved into Garden Pond, next door to your parents and sisters in Aprill 1998. I knew no one in SC. Your mom became my first and greatest friend in SC. The following month I found out I was pregnant. I said to your mom " You should have a baby, too, so we can be pregnant together!" She said she was too old! The following month she came over to tell me she was pregnant! She was excited. Even more so when she found out that she was having a boy-You! Danielle was born on Jan. 14. Three weeks later on Feb.8th, you were born. You were so little and handsome!

YOU ARE JOSHUA RUEL LIPAT!

When you were 6 weeks old, your mom asked if I could keep you and Eunice a few days a week. I accepted. At first you cried a lot! I would hold you and sing to you or just hug you and tell you it will be alright. You were very young when you developed the skin, asthma and allergies. You would scratch your your skin so raw that it would ooze. I would pray for you every night. Your mom, dad, and Ivy did what they could to make you comfortable-baths,lotions,breathing treatments. I remember your dad telling me he was taking a a week off work to a doctor to help you. He askin for our prayers for you. You still managed to be a smiling little boy when you were physically hurting.

YOU ARE LIKE JOB IN THE BIBLE, PATIENT!

We watch you and Danielle crawl, walk, and talk. It warmed my heart when you learned to say " I Love you, Ms. Debbie."

YOU ARE A COMFORTER!

Luz told me that you started including me in your prayers at bedtime.

YOU ARE A PRAYER WARRIOR!

You taught my family some tagalog. Cockroach is an ipis, mother is eni, Danielle still uses ipis when she sees one.

YOU ARE A TEACHER!

You were always creative. One time you and Danielle cut each others hair. After both of you getting in trouble, I took a picture of you two sporting your new haircuts with huge grins.

YOU ARE CREATIVE!

When we built a workshop in our backyard, Ruel helped. Of course you were right there indently watching. During the construction, you would ask Dan several times, " Mr. Dan is that for my and Danielle to live in?" You two were best pals.

YOU ARE A COMEDIAN!

When you started 4 year old kindergarten, you said how much you missed Danielle and you wish she could go with you. Danielle finally went to the morning class, while you were in the afternoon class. Sometimes your mom would bring you over while Danielle was in school to just to visit with me. One day you asked me, "Will you be my other mother?"

YOU ARE AN ENCOURAGER!

The Lipat and Dreher celebrated many birthdays, holidays, and other occasions throughout the years at each others homes, Chuck E. Cheese and the bowling alley. We spent many of your birthdays at Chuck E. Cheese. Your family introduced my family to pizza with pineapple and onions. You loved to play the games there!

YOU ARE HAPPY!

You liked to draw! One time you came over to the house with a poster board as big as you. You and Danielle drew and colored on it all day and gave it to Mr. Dan. You were always thinking of others's feelings! We still have that poster board some 5 years later. I always had your art work on the refrigerator next to Danielle's.

YOU ARE AN ARTIST!

I remember one time after your mom came back from the Philippine; she brought back a traditional Philipina Dress Shirt for your dad and you! Your dad was so proud how you looked in your matching shirts he had to bring you over for us to see.

YOU ARE HANDSOME!

In May 2005, I found out that I was pregnant again. When I found out it was a boy, you would pat my tummy and ask, "A boy like me, Ms. Debbie?" I would answer, "Yes, JR, I hope just like you!" I would tell your mom I prayed he would be handsome and sweet like you!

YOU ARE SWEET!

JR, you were always at your dad's side. Dan showed Ruel how to lay wood flooring. You were there taking note and asking to help!

YOU ARE A HELPER!

IN 2005, your dad had to find another job. We prayed that he would find something in the area. He eventually found something in Charleston. He would drive an hour each way. Then your parents told us they were moving to Summerville. Danielle cried for days. She said that her 1st best friend of her life is moving away. The day after you moved, she headed right out the door saying, " I am going to JR's." The door opened immediately. "That's right! The do not live there anymore." I jokingly told you that I was keeping you to live with me. I could not imagine my life without you and your family!

YOU ARE PRECIOUS!

Eunice, I have always called her that, called me about 3:30 on July 16,2008. She said, "Ms. Debbie, I have somthing to tell you. JR is gone!" I did not understand. She told me of the asthma attack and the hospital trip. I havenever cried so much in my life. We drove to Summerville to with you parents that night! I have continued to cry for many reasons; your parent's loss, your family's loss, your church, when I look at pictures of you and your precious smile, and trying to this letter to you!

1 John 11:4, it tells us: " Sickness well not end in death! No, it it for God's glory so that God's Son may be glorified.." I know our awesome God has his plans. They may not be what we have envisioned or though! I know one day that we will be reunited with you in heaven. Your parents and sisters will be able to hold you and kiss you again! Until then, JR, we have our precious memories of you to fill our sorrowful hearts!

We love you and will miss you very much!

Deborah Dreher and Family

Dear Luz, Ruel and Family

My heart is very heavy as I write this note to you. I cannot imagine what you are going through, and I am so sorry for that. I can tell you this, he was one of the sweetest little boysand so well mannered. It was a joy to be around him. He was also a cheerful giver. He loved having an offering to give to the church. He was always helpful to me in the primary class. He would love getting chairs for the children and passing out the lessons as the children came into hte room. When he was introduced to someone, he would always extend his hand for a hand shake. You all did a good job raising him. He loved his family, and he always had a prayer request. He always looked forward to spending time especially with his dad, and he wanted to be just like him. I feel he made an impression on our hearts, and out lives are so much richer having known him, and I look forward to seeing him one day. This should be of some comfort knowing that you will him one day too. Please stay close to the Lord, and give thanks to the Lord for choosing you as parents for a such sweet boy. He would not want you all to be sad that he's gone, but he wouldn't want to be forgotten either, and I know that won't happen because I will never forget him. I want to think about the time that we had him with us, and how it makes me want to be a better person because I don want to see him again. We have a wonderful father and he gives his children good gifts and JR was a gift, and thank you for sharing him with us.
Please take care of yourselves, and stay close to each other and the Lord. We will continue to pray for you, an you will be in our thoughts. We love each and everyone of you.

Love,
June and Larry Gibbs

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Lipat

I just wanted to let you know again how sorry I am about JR's passing. To lose any child would be unbearable, but a child as young and loving as J.R. is especially hard. He was a very special boy and will be missed by many people. I pray often that your family will find peace and happiness again J.R. would certainly want that. I have enclosed a poem that I wrote about J.R. for your book. Hold on to the good memories and know that J.R. is now in a better place. God Bless you and your family during his time of healing.







J.R.
It's hard to explain how a child so young
Could spread so much joy and so much love.
JR lived only for nine short years
But touched the lives of all he came near.
He had such a good soul and such a kind heart,
You could tell he was special right from the start.
He reached out to others and showed them he cared.
He reached out to others and showed them he cared
He hasd a love for life that he wanted to share.
God's purpose for him was to spread the joy on Earth,
And he has done that well since the day of his birth.
Now his Earthly life has come to an ending,
But his life in Heaven is only beginning.
It was in God's plan, He needed him-
Although J.R. was not quite ten.
He was chosen to spread God's love
With eternal life in Heaven above.


Kelly Powell
J.R.'s Second Grade Teacher

J.R.

For us JR was like our younger brother, we like playing games with him. We laugh, share, joke to each other and watch avatar and spongebob together. I remember he call Kuya, Ronnie Boy, and it always make us laugh. He's very energetic and fun to hang out with. JR like to offer help to everyone. He never did anything bad to us. He has a very sweet voice and a beautiful eyes. Everytime he visit us here, the first thing he's going to do is hug us. JR is very polite and humbel. He's more than a cousin to us. And we really, really love him.

Love,
Ron and Rizhia

To JR

JR was a great influence on me and everyone else that knew him. Even though I didn't know him that long, he was still a great friend. There wasn't anything bad I would say about him. Everytime I would come over to their house, he would be the only one to make me laugh, and also everytime I would leave he would give me a hug and sometimes a goodbye kiss on the hand. You would never get annoyed by him. To me, he was the kind of person you could be around for ever. Even if you didn't know him or he didn't know you, he would still make you feel welcome. I wish I could've got to know him better. He had a lot of goals that he wanted to accompish, he wanted to be sucessful. He would do such nice things for people. He gets along with everyone and there wasn't a time I've seen him mad. I just want him to know that he will always be in my heart. FOREVER!

Essence Johnson

Tribute to JR 2008

God did not promise sunshine without rain nor life without pain. I believe that death is one of the most difficult things for us to face in our lives.

We are so blessed to know that we will meet our loved ones again. We have not only faith in God, the Bible but the opportunity to live our lives for HIM so we can all be reunited with our loved ones again. What a beautiful promise!

JR was the sweetest child. He was so full of love for everyone. You could see it on his face. He had a smile for everyone-all of the time. He not only had a love for people he also loved animals. He was fortunate to have some puppies to romp and play with but also some birds so he could listen to their lovely singing.

One Sabbath I had the family over for dinner after church. After we had finished our meal, JR noticed a bowl of apples sitting on a table. He asked if he could have one, then two, then three. That little fellow was full from dinner; I don't know where he found room for 3 apples, but he did. That just shows the love he had for them.

A few weeks after his passing, his Mother and I met for breakfast. We chose Perkins. We had met there several times over the past 2 years for breakfast together. After we finished eating we sat out in my SUV and talked for a long time about JR. One of the things she shared with me I shall never forget. A new ambulance station had opened closed to their home. When JR saw the building project was complete and the men and women were manning the station, he told his Mother they had to buy donuts and bring them to the station. And, of course, his Mother complied with his wishes. That is just one way JR showed his love for others.

That little boy will be terribly missed at church. None of us well ever forget the smiling, bubbly, helpful little boy. We thank God that one day soon we will see him again and spend eternity with him and his family. What a beautiful promise!


May God Bless each of you. God promises weeping endureth for a night but joy cometh in the morning, Hang on dear ones to His promises.

Love,
Ellen and Ira Evans